So we all know that there are those small things that people do in relationships. The things that seem like they're nothing at all, when really they mean so much. They're sweet and adorable. They're sweet nothings. The things that might be seen as insignificant, but truly they could mean the world to some people. As we all know on myspace((whoot myspace!)) there are many bulletins. Some sweet, some stupid. Now, let us go to a sweet one. Shall we? One specifically with sweet nothings. Of course, this blog wouldn't be my own instead of some random posting if I didn't include my thoughts now would it? So you shall find my thoughts interlaced through these sweet nothings, and feel free to add your own if you wish!
When she stares at your mouth
[ Kiss her ]
What I'd like to know darling, is what girl truly stares at a boys mouth? I admit I glance once in a while, but I never stare! If the one I loved did catch me glancing though, then just cupped my chin in his hands, and then simply kissed me gently, then pulled away, looked in my eyes and smiled. That right there would be sweet.
When she pushes you or hits you like a dumb ass cuz she thinks shes stronger than you
[ Grab her and dont let go ]
It's true. Even if she fights. Never let her go. She adores you and she loves you to pieces. She just loves teasing you. Fighting with someone is an excuse for skin to brush. Then when you hold her... She feels like the world is melting away.
When she starts cursing at you tryin to act all tuff
[ Kiss her and tell her you love her ]
She just might give you a goofy smile then melt in your arms...
When she's quiet
[ Ask her whats wrong ]
Even if she says nothing, you should know her well enough that something is wrong. It'll depend on her, and the situation she's in if you should leave her alone or persist. It's a judgement call from that point. But simply that you asked (perhaps even twice?) will show her that you care.
When she ignores you
[ Give her your attention ]
DO NOT. I REPEAT DO NOT draw attention to yourself. She just might be trying to see if you'll get her to notice you. It's adorable when boys try to get our attention and pretend they're not doing anything at all...
When she pulls away
[ Pull her back ]
AND AGAIN! never. let. go. You're holding one of the most precious gems in the world. Never let go.
When you see her at her worst
[ Tell her she's beautiful ]
She should be beautiful to you no matter what.
When you see her start crying
[Just hold her and dont say a word ]
Sometimes you don't need words at all. She just wants to know your there. Do you notice a recurring theme? Hold her. Hold her close.
When you see her walking
[ Sneak up and hug her waist from behind ]
She'll laugh, squeal and try and push you away (refer to above not about being pushed away!!!)
When she's scared
[ Protect her ]
Be her knight in shining armour. Even if you don't think you are.
When she steals your favorite hat
[ Let her keep it and sleep with it for a night ]
Make some effort to get it back though. It's a cute little game of cat and mouse...
When she teases you
[ Tease her back and make her laugh ]
Every girl loves it if you make her laugh. It's proof that you make her happy. And yes. You WANT her to be HAPPY!
When she doesn't answer for a long time
[ reassure her that everything is okay ]
Because that's what she's thinking. 'Oh dear what's wrong?!'
When she looks at you with doubt
[ Back yourself up ]
You want to be her knight in shining armour. You appear to be perfect to her!
When she says that she likes you
[SHE REALLY DOES MORE THAN YOU COULD UNDERSTAND!!!]
Because girls crave being around people. And if there's someone special they crave being around someone special.
When she grabs at your hands
[ Hold her's and play with her fingers ]
She'll LOVE IT
When she bumps into you.
[ bump into her back and make her laugh ]
Again. Make. Her. Laugh!
When she tells you a secret
[ keep it safe and untold ]
She has to know she trusts you!
When she looks at you in your eyes
[ dont look away until she does ]
Wouldn't you want to stare into them forever anyway?
When she says it's over
[ she still wants you to be hers ]
Unless you really hurt her. Then she really means it.
When she reposts this bulletin[ she wants you to read it ]
Because she actually wants you to remember these things, and do THEM!
- Stay on the phone with her even if she's not saying anything.
She'll just be happy listening to you.
- When she's mad hug her tight and don't let go
Again under the category of. HOLD HER
- When she says she's ok dont believe it, talk with her
Find out what's really up. She'll love you.
- because 10 yrs later she'll remember you
As somethign positive too!
- Call her at 12:00am on her birthday to tell her you love her
Be the first person to talk to her on her birthday, she'll adore you.
- Treat her like she's all that matters to you.
Or at least one of the more important things...
- Stay up all night with her when she's sick.
No matter how yucky she may get, she'll adore you for it!
- Watch her favorite movie with her or her favorite show even if you think it's stupid.
It's an excuse to spend time with her!
- Give her the world.
Or at least somewhat close to it! -wink-
- Let her wear your clothes.
It means she loves the way you smell...
- When she's bored and sad, hang out with her.
It'll make her feel a lot better
- Let her know she's important.
She wants to be important. to YOU.
- Kiss her in the pouring rain.
Plain and simple. It's sexy.
- When she runs up to you crying, the first thing you say is;"Whose ass am I kicking baby?"
Then proceed to do something ABOUT IT!
Small things that let her know you love her. You know like that disney song. "How does she know that you love her?" You have got to let her know. Sometimes just saying it isn't enough. It's easy to lie. You have to prove it.
1 comment:
This is so perfect. It's what a girl really wants. She wants her knight in shining armor and she wants to be held. Words are not the only thing that she needs. She just needs him to be there, especially when she cries. Rain rocks!!! She loves to play around, and she loves to laugh. It's the most perfect thing he can do for her, any hims... use the advice. Most likely, you could use it.
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